sjar Chapter 381 Personality Incompatibility
Chapter 381 Personality Incompatibility
It seems like all holidays go by so quickly.
Shen Sangning stayed at home for the rest of the day and left.
After a trip to Kunlun Mountain, Gu Qingzhou has not yet come out of seclusion.
I stayed there for two days and gave some guidance to other monks.
When she returned to Lingyun Temple, many bigwigs came to visit her.
After another day of socializing, tickets were officially sold and the theater opened.
Today's first lucky audience is a girl who is very beautiful and has a lively personality.
The girl's name was Liu Mengmeng. As soon as they met, she jumped for joy: "Master Shen, can I hug you? I'm so happy to see you!"
Shen Sangning smiled and opened her arms.
"Wow! I'm so happy. Master Shen, can I take a photo with you?"
"Okay..." Shen Sang Ning smiled and said, "Is that your boyfriend outside the hall? Let him come in and help take the photo."
Liu Mengmeng nodded excitedly: "Song Jiahong, come in quickly! Take a photo of me and the master!"
The boy outside the hall had been looking here. When he heard his girlfriend's voice, he hurried in and smiled shyly at Shen Sangning: "Master, hello, hello..."
"Hello...sorry to bother you." Shen Sangning smiled.
After taking several photos in succession, Shen Sangning motioned for the two to sit down.
"What do you need to calculate?" Shen Sangning looked at Liu Mengmeng and asked softly.
Liu Mengmeng pursed her lips, turned her head to look at her boyfriend, and said with a little sadness in her eyes: "Master...he and I...have been together for almost a year."
"I can feel that he treats me very well. I like him quite a lot..."
"We were very happy together at the beginning, but in the past three months, we have been arguing frequently."
"He is too sensitive, and his restraints on me sometimes make me feel suffocated."
"We came here today just to let the master see whether we are suitable for each other..."
"We have already agreed that if it doesn't work out for us, then we can just part ways amicably."
Shen Sangning glanced at the two of them and smiled: "Can you tell me more specifically? What did you quarrel about?"
The two looked at each other, Song Jiahong pinched his eyebrows and remained silent.
Seeing this, Liu Mengmeng said, "Then let me tell you."
"Master, you should be able to see that we two have completely different personalities."
"I am an extrovert, carefree, and sometimes even nervous."
"He is an introvert, doesn't like to talk, and is sometimes even shy. But he is a very good person, very kind and thoughtful."
“It is precisely because of this quality of his that I have a good impression of him.”
"He would collect all the cans and delivery cartons at home. Then he would neatly present them to the garbage collector."
"When he sees older people setting up stalls on the street, he will buy some no matter what they are selling."
"When he goes out to eat, if there is a trash can nearby, he will clean up the trash on the table himself after eating and wipe it with a tissue."
"When he smokes, even when he's walking on the street, he never throws his cigarette butts on the ground. He just holds them in his hands until he sees a trash can."
“I really admire his upbringing and kindness in life.”
"But the way he treats relationships really makes me depressed sometimes."
"I prefer to be in a lively place and not be alone."
"When I have nothing to do, I just want to hang out with friends, chat, sing some songs, and drink some wine."
“I think this is a lifestyle that most young people like.”
"Besides, we both have good jobs and don't have much financial pressure."
"Every time I go out, I take him with me. I introduce him to my friends as my boyfriend."
"My friends are all very nice. We usually have a lot of fun hanging out together. They are also very enthusiastic about my boyfriend."
"The problem between me and him also appears among these friends of mine."
"In the beginning, he went out with me and accompanied me. He was worried about me, afraid that I would drink too much, and afraid that something would happen if I came home late."
"Afterwards...he stopped going there. He said he didn't like these kinds of occasions and asked me to go out less often."
"Master, this is the first conflict between us."
"My idea is that I have my freedom and I also need personal space. And this is my personality. You can't restrict me according to your own ideas."
"And my life and personality have always been like this. I will not compromise myself or give up my happiness because of anyone."
"He thought that it was not good for a girl to go out drinking, dancing and singing karaoke all day. He said he just didn't like me like that!"
"It just so happens that today there are so many viewers in the live broadcast room. I think I did nothing wrong, and he also thinks he did nothing wrong."
Shen Sangning pinched her brows and glanced at the comments.
[These are two people with different personalities. They don’t match. Break up! ]
【Believe me, let each other go, and you will find someone better and more suitable. 】
[I saw a passage on TikTok. If you hate the smell of cigarettes, find a non-smoker instead of trying to convert a heavy smoker.
If you like company, you should find a clingy man instead of forcing a playful man to accompany you.
If you like to live a life with abundant material wealth, you should find a man with good financial situation instead of forcing yourself to live with a poor and unmotivated man.
If you desire a sense of security, you should find a stable man instead of expecting a philandering man to be loyal.
Your situation is very simple. If you like someone, then find someone who shares the same interests as you.
He doesn't like crowds, so he should find a quiet girl. 】
[I am also a man... I don't know what you girls think. But I think that most guys don't like their girlfriends to go out all day... especially in bars and other entertainment places. ]
[There are too many toxic chicken soups nowadays. There are not so many reasons for two people to like each other and be together. It would be better if they understand, tolerate and respect each other and think more about each other. ]
"Can I say a few words?" Song Jiahong, who had been silent, raised his head and glanced at his girlfriend Liu Mengmeng.
Liu Mengmeng glanced at him and turned her head away.
Song Jiahong smiled helplessly: "I'm sorry, Master Shen, I made you laugh."
"Mengmeng and I do have some conflicts. When I first met her, I thought she had a really good personality. She was always talking and laughing, and she was lively and cheerful."
"She can drive my emotions and bring me happiness."
"At that time, I knew she often went to bars. After we got together, she also took me there."
"I tried very hard to fit in with her circle and adapt to her life, as long as I could be with him."
"But that was when we first got together..."
"Now in the blink of an eye, we have been together for almost a year."
"It's just after the Chinese New Year. She's 25 and I'm 26."