sjar Chapter 769 There is no right or wrong, everyone is a loser
Chapter 769 There is no right or wrong, everyone is a loser
Strictly speaking, both parties are losers and victims in this marriage.
Because Wang Gang's father died early, his mother had to support the entire family alone. She controlled her only son to the extreme.
Be it studying or any activities or competitions, if you don’t get into the top three, you won’t be allowed to sleep, eat, or watch TV, and going out to play is out of the question.
Even if he wants to make ordinary friends, in his mother's eyes, the other party is dating him just to get their family's things, not to mention things like girlfriends, which are controlled extremely strictly.
Under this extreme control, Wang Gang became what people called a "mama's boy". It was not until the appearance of Xu Hongmi that he began to feel the urge to rebel after having been suppressed and controlled for so many years.
It was precisely because of this external force from their mother that their relationship was very pure at first. Wang Gang enjoyed it very much. In order for the two to be together, he even made a bet with his mother.
As a result, Xu Hongmi worked very hard and rose from a grassroots position in the company to management level in less than two years, which fully demonstrated her ability and vision. This was the first time in her life that she won in front of her mother.
Their marriage was also approved by their mother, and they thought everything would be very happy. However, Xu Hongmi's strong personality made her want perfection in both family and career. Even when she was pregnant, she did not delay the company's affairs.
At that time, Wang Gang just felt sorry for his wife's hard work, but when Xu Hongmi gave birth to the child, less than two months later, she returned to the company to take charge of work, and took drastic measures to get rid of the cronies that his mother had planted in the company during this period. Everything began to change.
She knows her own son well, and Xu Hongmi's dominance makes her feel threatened. She worries that once she is gone one day, the entire Wang family will be controlled by Xu Hongmi. If this woman has any bad intentions, her son will be just a lamb to be slaughtered.
So after failing to arrange for someone to be born, she began to find various excuses, advising Xu Hongmi to take care of her health, and even urged her son to try hard to get Xu Hongmi pregnant as soon as possible.
With two children at once, no matter how career-oriented a woman is, she cannot ignore the children and will certainly not have enough energy. You can take the opportunity to infiltrate some capable people into the team.
If the second child gives her a grandson, she is also prepared to let go slowly. As long as the Wang family's property does not fall into the hands of outsiders, it is fine for her to give it to her son or grandson.
Xu Hongmi was fully focused on her career, and that period was a rare opportunity for the company to expand. She was confident that she did not want to be dragged down by the pregnancy. In her opinion, having one child was enough, and she had fulfilled her duties as a woman.
Wang's mother was dissatisfied with this and naturally said a lot of unpleasant things in front of her son. At the beginning, Wang Gang still protected Xu Hongmi, but as time went on, she found that Xu Hongmi cared less about the family and instead focused on her career. He finally began to take his mother's words seriously.
It was not until that year when Xu Hongmi won two big clients in succession and brought up the issue of company shares that she had an argument with her mother. It was clearly a reunion dinner, but they ended up parting on bad terms. Wang Gang finally concluded that Xu Hongmi was with him in the first place, just as his mother said, because she was after his family's money.
The relationship began to deteriorate, and Wang Gang, who realized that he was wrong, began to indulge himself.
It is said that it is easy to learn bad things but difficult to learn good things. After indulging myself for a while, I realized that the life of rich people can be so happy and extravagant, and that the women outside all speak nicely and do what they say.
Xu Hongmi naturally knew Wang Gang's personality and knew that he was not suitable for managing a company, so she never counted on him and had to be busy herself. As a result, she had no time to care about him or where he went to play every day.
After a while, the Queen Mother discovered her son's situation, but it was too late to control him at this time. His rebellious period had continued until he became a father due to his mother's suppression.
He just wants to enjoy life to the fullest.
After taking care of her son for more than ten years, the Queen Mother still has a way to strangle his economic lifeline. How can you be free and easy without money? If you have no money, those women will talk nonsense to you? If you have no money, will bars and nightclubs let you relax at will?
A lot of things happened during this period, but Xu Hongmi didn't know about it. Wang Gang had quarreled and made a fuss, and even borrowed money from outside.
In the end, it was the rebellious son who defeated his mother. He knew that his mother cared most about inheritance, so he used Xu Hongmi's refusal to give birth as an excuse and asked her to either divorce him and let him remarry, or give him money to let him go out and play.
Eventually things evolved to the point where we are today.
From Xu Hongmi's perspective, her husband does not have the ability and courage to be a boss, so she naturally has the responsibility to run the family company well, take care of the children, and both sets of parents. She is working hard for the future of the family, so she neglects to take care of her husband's emotions. Is this wrong?
From the perspective of Wang Gang's mother, she just wants her son to live a good life and wants the family to be passed down. She is worried that Xu Hongmi is too strong, so she wants to use her own methods to balance it out. There is nothing wrong with this...
Wang Gang's wish is the simplest. He just wants to have a happy family, a wife who loves him and takes him as the center, and live a happy and ordinary life. When he finds that everything he expects is ultimately unfulfilled after his unremitting efforts, he becomes a little self-destructive. From his perspective, he is not wrong...
Wrong time, wrong place, met the wrong person, and shaped half of my life, a wrong life...