sjar Chapter 864: We are professionals in fanning the flames
Chapter 864: We are professionals in fanning the flames
Chen An slowed down the car and did not speak in a hurry. Instead, he gave Xu Li time to put herself in Yu Chuhui's situation to achieve empathy.
Although there are no fancy words, Chen An's masterful writing depicts the ups and downs of the story, vividly describing a filial and hardworking girl who repeatedly suffers setbacks.
In addition, they had just had lunch together at noon, and that sweet smile formed a sharp contrast with the story, making Yu Chuhui's image even more vivid in Xu Li's eyes.
Empathy is one of the essential skills for a psychologist. After all, if you cannot stand in the other person's shoes and clearly feel the other person's condition, you will not be able to provide perfect treatment.
After a while, Chen An heard Xu Li sniffling. He glanced at her cheek and saw that her eyes were red and there were traces of tears on her face. It seemed that she had a deep understanding of Yu Chuhui's experience.
"Your beautiful, wealthy and white boyfriend arranged for you to have an interview at a listed company, but unfortunately you failed the interview because you were young and inexperienced. You were very desperate at the time and even blamed yourself. However, your beautiful, wealthy and white boyfriend did not feel unhappy because you lost face, but arranged a new job for you."
"Sister Li, what kind of feelings do you have towards the boyfriend of a white, rich and beautiful woman..."
"I..." After a while, Xu Li sighed, "Even though I know there is no future, I still have feelings for my beautiful, rich and white boyfriend that I shouldn't have..."
Chen An sighed helplessly, "In fact, when I agreed to help, I had already anticipated this situation..."
Xu Li curled her lips, always feeling that this guy was taking advantage of her. Apart from his poor background, Yu Chuhui was very outstanding in appearance and other aspects.
"A beautiful girl likes you, shouldn't you be happy and proud?"
"Sister Li, it's really weird to hear such superficial words coming out of your mouth."
Xu Li suddenly didn't know how to refute and couldn't help feeling a little angry. Did this little brother have any special training on his eloquence?
"If it's not a job like being an assistant where you work together day and night, as time goes by and you deliberately keep your distance, the feelings will slowly fade until a more suitable person appears."
"But that's just if. As time goes by, this feeling will take root and grow, and you will sink deeper and deeper until you can't extricate yourself. If this emotion can't be vented, the longer it is suppressed in your heart, the greater the damage it will cause. A failed relationship may take a lifetime to repair the trauma."
Seeing that Chen An was obviously a playboy, but he wanted to act like an emotional master, Xu Li felt inexplicably unhappy, "So you are going to cut your flesh to feed the eagle, feed the tiger, kill people for righteousness, sacrifice your life for justice, and become her outlet, right?"
Seeing Xu Li's inexplicable emotions, Chen An smiled and asked, "Sister Li, do you have a child?"
What does that mean? Not playing by the rules? Xu Li was a little confused, but she still wanted to find out. "What's wrong with not having children?"
"Are you married?"
This little guy is asking about my situation? Xu Li's mouth corners slightly raised, "Divorced..."
"Oh..." Chen An deliberately prolonged his voice, "No wonder..."
Hearing this playful tone, Xu Li couldn't hold back for a moment, "Hey, Chen An, what do you mean? A grown man is talking to a woman like that in a sarcastic way. Are you... are you interested?"
In response, Chen An just turned his head and looked at Xu Li with a look of regret and pity.
She understood Chen An's look instantly. The little fire in Xu Li's heart burned fiercely as if it were doused with gasoline. "Chen An, what do you mean by that look? Explain it to me clearly~~!"
Chen An asked calmly, "Sister Li, although I don't understand the profession of psychologists, I think a stable inner self is the most basic quality of a psychologist, right?"
Xu Li's anger was instantly extinguished by the cold water, and she calmed down a lot. She frowned and couldn't help but reflect on herself. She has always been rational, but...
Chen An slowly stopped the car, turned to look at Xu Li, who was restless, and spoke softly, "Sister Li, a doctor cannot heal himself. It is better to treat it early if it is discovered."
Xu Li pointed at her nose, her face full of disbelief. "You said I have a mental illness. Are you kidding? Even if a doctor can't treat himself, it doesn't mean he can't examine himself. I can see that you have a common problem with most men. You have an overwhelming desire to preach."
"Well, let me ask you a few questions."
"Who are you to ask me questions?"
"Is it fun to deceive yourself? I just want to prove that what I said about the man who said that education is overflowing is correct. You are just a patient. As a famous psychologist, can't you dare to answer even the simplest questions?"
"Hmph, that's a poor way of provoking me, but I'd like to hear what your problem is."
You're a tsundere, right? I'll turn you into a spoiled brat soon.
"When we first met at noon, I could clearly sense your joy from your eyes. Was it because you couldn't help but get excited when you saw me, a young, handsome, and wealthy person?"
Xu Li spat, "Pah, I've never seen anyone so narcissistic as you."
"Don't deny it. I guess in your eyes I am a playboy. If that's the case, congratulations on getting it right. So I am very accurate in judging women. Your sophistry only makes me think you are guilty."
"It is the most normal reaction for a person to feel happy when being praised by an outstanding member of the opposite sex. Why are you resisting?"
Seeing Chen An's determined expression, Xu Li snorted and agreed.
"I have a good memory. During the meal, you looked at me seventeen times, intentionally or unintentionally. Your eyes were full of admiration, curiosity, a hint of loss, and a melancholy that could not be hidden..."
Xu Li was fooled by Chen An's serious words and the so-called precise numbers. She did secretly look at Chen An at that time. After all, which woman could completely ignore a young, handsome and wealthy man? But was the look in her eyes so complicated?
Seeing Xu Li's expression, Chen An suppressed his smile, "I felt strange at the time, until you mentioned divorce just now, I deliberately provoked you, your abnormal behavior made me confirm the problem..."
Xu Li opened her mouth and wanted to refute, but it seemed that she was indeed a little irritable after the mention of divorce. Could it be that she had not let go of that bad relationship? No, that was not right.